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13 Ways to Dominate Your Submissive

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Whether you’re in a full-time d/s relationship or just dabbling in BDSM with your kinky lover, there are many ways in which you can assert your dominance.

13 Ways to Dominate

  1. Tell her to cut their hair to your liking and wear the clothes you find most attractive. More than this, make sure she irons and lays out her outfit for the next day. Inspect each item, taking your time.
  2. Make her crawl on the floor toward you when you call her. Have her place her head on your knee as a dog would, and don’t let her up until you decide it is time.
  3. Make it so she only speaks when spoken to at home, or maybe even in public. You can use a collar to note this stipulation.
  4. Ensure that she keeps her body groomed exactly as you please. Have her strip periodically, so you can be sure that she is conforming to your wishes.
  5. Master the art of a penetrating stare, to make her understand who’s in charge.
  6. If she displeases you, force her to be silent for a week, even if you give pain or pleasure.
  7. Have her wear nipple clamps under her clothing, and take her out in public. Tell her to grin and bear it, and that you will punish her if she shows any sign of pain.
  8. Remember that true devotion comes when one mixes punishment with reward. Occasionally pamper her, and take care of her needs if and when she pleases you. Make it a surprise, and intersperse it with proper punishment.
  9. Even if she does please you entirely, make sure you do something to remind her who is the boss.
  10. Forbid her to wear clothing around the house. Have her cook and clean in the nude. Some doms will even have their subs or slaves answer the door naked.
  11. Remember to ask her what her fantasies are, and adhere to her boundaries. All of this is for the pleasure of two people because domination and submission are part of a symbiotic agreement.
  12. Be consistent, so that rewards and punishment, pleasure and pain are all part of a game with agreed upon rules.
  13. Remember your safe words, and if something does go wrong, don’t be shy to call in help.  A little embarrassment is so much less of a thing than an injury or worse. Have fun!

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  1. Diamond

    March 8, 2018 at 10:54 am

    This article strikes me as though it was written by someone who only watches BDSM porn and who has never actually engaged in BDSM.

    I can’t even begin to name everything wrong with it.

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