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How You Can Seduce and Keep a Submissive Woman

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Ironically enough, many of the same women who enjoy playing a submissive role in BDSM have personalities that make them intimidating to approach and often hard to win over, as well. A lot of men make the mistake of assuming that a sexually submissive woman will be as pliant and responsive to commands in day-to-day life as they are in the bedroom (or on the rack), a misunderstanding that can put a quick and unpleasant stop to your wooing.

At its root, a submissive relationship is one that depends on trust. The sub has to trust that her dom will respect her limits while still pushing them. The key to seducing a submissive woman flows from the ability to begin establishing that trust upon your first contact with her.

While it’s very much possible for people to put their trust into total strangers, you can’t count on that happening right away, especially when you’re new to drawing in a new sub, so it’s important not to push things too far, too fast. Let’s say you’ve been introduced to a woman by a friend, and one of the things you know about her is that she enjoys bondage; don’t just transition straight from “Pleased to meet you” to “Your dungeon or mine?” – start with a bit of friendly small talk like you would with anyone else. Show confidence, but don’t be cocky, carry yourself like you’ve done this sort of thing a thousand times, and you have no fear of failure.

When the time comes and things take a sexual turn, of course you have to take charge and call all the shots; that’s what being a dom is all about. Until that time comes though, play it cool. Be assertive and confident, but not bossy. Show that you’re a take charge kind of guy, but give her some room. Later, when she’s ready, it will make it that much easier for her to turn control over to you, completely and with utter devotion.

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